There is no connection between love and sex
Mass confusion reigns in the world when it comes to the topic of love and sex. Almost every book in the world groups the two together. TV shows, movies and especially music have made a mockery of the word “love”, by constantly associating with the mating instinct, sex or some other phenomenon that occurs within human beings. Not one individual has consistently expressed the reality of the situation, either due to fear, conditioning, or lack of understanding and that reality is simple: there is absolutely no connection between love and sex.
The misunderstanding stems from lack of experience more than anything else. Ordinary human beings have no experience of love-they haven’t had it for millennia. Civilization arose, reached its zenith and is now slowly crumbling under the weight of its own selfishness, stupidity and apathy, but love remains an experience that most people don’t have and never will.
Then what is the feeling that people have for each other? Actually, people are only feeling what they have within themselves. Memories create the illusion that there is some kind of continuity in relationships, whereas people simply come and go in each other’s lives over time. Imagination creates the illusion that there is some sort of future between people, when there is really no such thing. People build up the idea of a relationship in their heads, and try as hard as they can to maintain it-using photographs, words, touch and so on, but there is no such thing as a relationship at all, except in memory or as an idea.
The idea that we are connected with each other isn’t a farce. It is true, but that connection exists at a very deep level, at a level we would normally call “God”. We are not connected at the physical level, or even at the spiritual level. Our independence, as entities, goes quite deep. We are actually alone, each of us, in existence, and whatever we feel for each other is a mirage, nothing more.
“Each of us is alone, totally alone. And that is a good thing. If we weren’t, individuality would be of no value.”
Stop seeking the wrong thing
Worldwide, people are spending enormous amounts of time, energy, money and resources in order to not feel alone. Group activities, work organizations, dating apps-you name it. Somehow, people started to believe that being disconnected from each other in existence is a bad thing, and they started chasing what they call “human connection”. To this day, idiotic narratives pervade, especially in many corporate advertisements as well as non-profit mission statements promising to provide, acknowledge, care for or nurture the human connection. “We all need each other”, it seems. “Come together”, is a popular song, as it has been for many decades and continues to be some sort of rallying cry for those who think the world is going awry because we’ve forgotten to connect with each other.
Nothing could be further from the truth. Not only do we not need each other (the current interdependent world economy notwithstanding), our need is for connection with a higher power-our own inner intelligence. AKA Love.
“The connection you seek is with your own inner intelligence. That inner intelligence, is love.”
Unfortunately, your inner intelligence isn’t skin-deep. It isn’t something you can see, by looking at your body and saying “Aha! There it is!”. Love, in fact, exists at such a deep level, that to even come in touch with it will require a level of silence in your system that you have never experienced, even as a baby. In other words, your whole body will need to be totally quiet. When you are totally quiet, your inner intelligence will naturally rise and take over.
Most of you have no idea what that silence feels like.
The way you all look to me, and to every yogi on the planet, is like a badly aligned railway diesel engine, filled to the brim with polluted fuel, unlubricated, unclean, unwashed, uncared-for, but let loose on some rail tracks. It rattles and shakes, lurches and slides, vibrates, smokes, screeches and moves extremely slowly. There is no gracefulness, nor balance in the movements and every action is forced, cumbersome and lacks the ease with which a simple bird flies day in and day out on this Earth.
And you call this living.
I have to clean you out from the inside, all the way in where you are literally put together. God lives at that level because He manages your system, but you’ve decided you want nothing to do with Him (you did this without realizing you did). So I have to talk to God, in your body, and let Him understand that we’re changing things and that He needs to take care of you. That’s what my job is, when you come to me.
We can’t just let you loose as soon as I am done, because you haven’t a clue how life will be once you are all set. So we’re going to allow Time to do its thing: slow things down and let you experience one change at a time, instead of everything at once.
Learn to make love, to yourself
The process of enlightenment is so hard that most people fail and give up, because they simply don’t want to learn to love themselves properly. The internet is filled with wild and disgusting websites full of demonstrations of inappropriate sexual behavior, but no one can show you how to make love to yourself properly because it is something only you can discover and apply and practice (and practice and practice), until you gain some understanding of what love really is. Yes, your body does need sex, no question. Anyone that denies the body sex will totally fall out of balance. But you don’t need anyone else. Your body’s need for sex is simply a question of energy and if you know how to harmonize your energy, you will see that your body does not even think about anyone else for sex. For most people, this is a huge relief, because the amount of rabid chasing after others that people seem to engage in is truly depleting. It reduces your vital energies to such a low point that you will experience everything from depression to loneliness to perversion.
Those that constantly find themselves on these disgusting websites I am talking about know exactly how powerless they feel in the face of what seems like a harmless vice.
But you shouldn’t judge yourself. You didn’t know, because no one taught you how to really love the body. In fact, they probably taught you that you should be ashamed of certain parts of the body, that they lead to sin, that you should hide them away. Sure, no one wants you to walk around naked in society, but you need not hide the body from yourself. In fact, most of you have no idea what you really look like because you have never taken a good look at your own body without being afraid of it.
When I am done working on you, and your own inner intelligence starts to function, first it will fix things on the inside. Only when the inner workings are good, will it venture out and try to do something with your world. And if you weren’t aware, your body is part of your world.
“Your body is part of your world. It is not you.”
You may or may not have noticed that I have said hardly anything about sex. I will not speak about sex other than to point out some inappropriate ways that the world is engaging in it, and to say, repeatedly, that it has nothing to do with love.
Beware of people who refer to perverse behavior as some sort of yoga, offer sexual services as if it were therapy, or try to convince you that porn, for example, is alright. You know, already, that it is not alright. And you must learn to stand steadfast and continue to move in the direction of love, never sex. You don’t have to be taught sex, truth be told. It’s built into you, but you have to learn to love. Otherwise, your life will be nothing but a superficial experience.
If you are struggling spiritually with love, I urge you to come to me, speak to me, spend time with me and you will see just how happy my whole being is. You will understand first hand what it means to be in love, how it works and how beautiful life is when you live in purity. I can answer questions for you that I cannot in a public setting and set the record straight, in your head, forever.
Clarity is what you need and once you have it, you won’t have to be confused, even while you are on the path and struggling with things. As a consequence, fewer of you will support the depravity and exploitation going on in our world. That alone, would be a great service to humanity.
